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Q: I’m a divorced father and my kids don’t
live with me. How can I get and stay involved in their home and
school life?
A: Be creative! Look for ways to let your children
know that you care about what’s going on in their lives. Email
is a great way of staying in touch or consider calling them to get
an update. You can discuss school progress, what they're enjoying
and some things that they're concerned about. Another idea is to
make copies of their good work for your refrigerator or other place
of honor. Whenever possible attend school functions. Children especially
like it when their dad volunteers in their school or classroom.
Remember that you can make the difference!
Q: My daughter doesn’t take rules seriously.
What can I do?
A: Putting rules in writing and what happens if they’re
disobeyed is a powerful way for your child to mind the “rules
of the road”. Try to be brief and positive when stating rules
and consequences. Example: “ Do not disturb Mom when she is
on the phone. TV time will be shortened. Then, sign it along with
your child. Post it in a place where it can easily be seen.
Q: When my son makes a mistake, I often am tempted
to respond negatively with criticism. What is a good response in
this situation?
A: A great response focuses on solutions. Example:
“You forgot to bring your reading book home again. Let’s
ask your teacher to check your backpack when you leave school,”
rather than, “I can’t believe you forgot your book again.”
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